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Dear Michelle:
My son is being bullied. I am angry and upset. My husband and I have told him to fight back. That's not working. I am frustrated. What should we do?
-Frustrated with Bullying in Washington, DC
Dear Washington DC:
Bullying is a huge problem in today's schools. All parents should speak with their children about bullying. In answer to your question, please do the following:
1. Gather as many details about the bullying as possible.
2. Meet with the school principal and your child's teacher. *The bully's parents should be at the meeting as well.
3. Maintain open lines of communication with your son.
-Let your son know that it's not his fault.
-Develop a safety plan for your son. *Teach him to seek help from a teacher, principal, or school official whenever he feels threatened at school. **Let your son know that he should always report the bullying.
Bullying is very serious, therefore, it should always be taken very seriously.
Dear Michelle:
I am in my thirties. Handsome male and financially secure. My parents are pressuring me to get married. Every time that I speak with my parents, they remind me that it's time for me to settle down. I am not ready to get married. I enjoy dating, going to clubs, and living the single life. I also know that I wouldn't be faithful. Should I marry to please my parents?
-Happy Bachelor in Malibu
Dear Malibu:
If you are not ready to get married, then don't. Regardless of your age, you are the one who truly knows when you will be ready for marriage, or, if you will ever get married. It is not your parents' life, it is yours. Don't get married, until you are ready!
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